Freedom to love. Freedom from porn.
Are you sick of porn sucking up your time? Your energy? Your heart?
Scared of losing her? Or having her find out?
Tired of having to hide what you are doing? Of living a double life?
You've tried to quit on your own. But willpower is seldom enough.
You need more insight. Skills. And support. Like with anything else, a mentor to show you how.
I'm John Williams. I know what it's like to have a porn and masturbation habit that feels out of control. That you "quit" over and over. And that you don't know how to tell your wife about. Again.
Maybe struggle with depression, too? Anxiety? I have, also. Loads of guilt? Afraid of letting people really know you? Yes, I have been there too.
I've gotten free. I have a 35 year happy marriage to a wonderful woman. I have men to go to for accountability and support.
You can get free, too. There's power in being connected with someone who understands.
And understanding yourself better.
Want to compare notes with other guys? Get challenged and encouraged to strive for more? Seeking more authentic connections to other men?
Group coaching and accountability is a strong boost to regaining control and freedom.
One on one Coaching
Got value from groups but want to go deeper? Or prefer the customized attention and privacy of personal coaching?
Individual mentoring and accountability is the most powerful way to take your recovery journey to the next level.
All in one
I'm trained in Marriage and Family Counseling, and also in porn and masturbation addiction and infidelity.
So I can help you with your habit and in repairing your relationship with your woman.
You do need a specialist in porn and sex addiction. Most other therapists make the mistake of focusing on contributing psychological issues instead of helping you control the habit itself.
I also am a licensed Mental Health Counselor, so I can help you with any depression, anxiety or other issues that might be making things worse (for those living in New York).
Meeting by video call is a lot more convenient, more confidential, and inexpensive compared to in-person sessions.
We can connect at home, work or even a parked car.
And you won't run into your co-worker in the waiting room.
Super-securely encrypted to protect your privacy.
If you live in the New York City or northern Jersey area, we can meet in person, too, in my comfortable office.
I favor research-proven methods, so I can go strictly scientific with you. If you're not religious, this is a comfortable place for you.
But I value my own faith. If spirituality is a resource for you too, I will capitalize on that asset.
Raised in a conservative home and feeling a lot of guilt? I am particularly effective with that.
Christian? Muslim? Believer in a Higher Power? I genuinely respect all perspectives and will honor what is important to you.
in-person Meetings in NYC:
276 Fifth Avenue (near 30th Street), Suite 704
New York, NY 10001