Live Free.  Love strong. 

Get bulletproof integrity.

Are you sick of porn sucking up your time? Your energy? Your heart?  
Scared of losing her? 
Ready to take your recovery to the next level?
That means smarter strategies. Gaining skills. Better accountability.
And finding out what's really behind the habit and getting it worked out. 
It's not who you want to be anymore. And it's not what she can stand any longer. 
​You can become the man you want to be. You can have Bulletproof Sexual Integrity.
I'm John Williams. I know what it's like to have a porn and masturbation habit that you're ashamed of. That you "quit" over and over. And that you don't know how to tell your wife about. Again. 
Also afraid of closeness, letting people really know you? Yes, I have been there too. Maybe struggle with depression? Anxiety? I have, too. 
​I've gotten free. I have a 35 year happy marriage to a wonderful woman and a great relationship with my married daughter. I have men to go to for accountability and support.
You can get free, too.  There's power in being connected with others who understand. 
And understanding yourself better.
Here's what we can do together:

Group  Coaching

Want to compare notes with other guys? Get challenged and encouraged to strive for more? Seeking more authentic connections to other men?
​Group coaching and accountability is a strong boost to recovery and freedom. 

One  on  one  Coaching

Got value from groups but want to go deeper? Or prefer the customized attention and privacy of personal  coaching?
​Individual mentoring and accountability is the most powerful way to take your recovery journey to the next level.  
"What I have learned with you is priceless.
​I really feel like I am growing as a person for the first time in years." MU

so  What  makes  me  different?

There are other porn recovery coaches and counselors. Why me?

All  in  one

​I'm trained in Marriage and Family Counseling, and also in porn and masturbation addiction.

​So I can help you with your habit and in repairing your relationship with your woman.

I also am a licensed Mental Health Counselor, so I can help you with any depression, anxiety or other issues that might be making things worse. 

Online    options

Meeting by video call is a lot more convenient, more confidential, and inexpensive compared to in-person sessions.
We can connect at home, work or even a parked car. 
And you won't run into your co-worker in the waiting room.
Super-securely encrypted to protect your privacy. 
If you live in the northern Jersey/New York City area, we can meet in person, too, in my comfortable office.

 Flexible

I favor research-proven methods, so I can go strictly scientific with you. If you're not religious, this is a comfortable place for you.

But I value my own faith. If spirituality is a resource for you too, I will capitalize on that asset.

Christian? Muslim? Higher Power? I genuinely respect all perspectives and will honor what is important to you.
Want to know more? Let me introduce myself.

In  Person  Meetings in  North  jersey:

Montclair, New Jersey 07042. Contact me for details.

in  person  Meetings  in  NYC:

276 Fifth Avenue, Suite 704
New York, NY  10001
"Thank you, John, for your compassionate heart and investment,
​your wisdom and great suggestions." DH
Text me at ​​973.453.3902 to arrange for a free 15 minute call.

Frequently  asked  questions

​do  you  take  insurance? 

​I'm an out of network provider. But the good news is that my services are already discounted compared to others, since I can save on office space and services.
More good news. No insurance means I can keep your records completely confidential. And you don't have to get a mental health diagnosis that remains on your permanent health record. 

do  you  have  evening  hours?

Best hours are the late morning and afternoon, but I have some night slots available. And early morning. Contact me to see what is open.

Is  my  privacy  protected  if  we  are  meeting  online?

Yes. The Zoom platform we use is encrypted to federal HIPAA confidentiality standards. 
You can also use a special email address only for this purpose. 
You can conceal your online group identity with a nickname. ​

how  long  does  coaching   usually  last?

On average, most men go for six months of group meetings or individual sessions.

Do  You  Work  with  couples?

Yes, that's a specialty of mine. I can meet with both of you. And also coach each of you separately to help build up your trust and connection. 

Call or text:    973.453.3902