Are you sick of porn sucking up your time? Your energy? Your heart?
Tired of meaningless sex? Cybersex? Paid sex? Risky behaviors? Too many partners to count?
Sick of having to hide what you are doing? Of living a double life? Of feeling ashamed?
Scared of losing her? Or having her find out?
You've tried to quit on your own. But willpower is seldom enough.
You need more insight. Skills. And support. Like with anything else, a mentor to show you how.
I'm John Williams. I know what it's like to have a porn and masturbation habit that feels out of control. That you "quit" over and over. And that you don't know how to tell your wife about. Again.
Maybe struggle with depression, too? Anxiety? I have, also. Loads of guilt? Afraid of letting people really know you? Yes, I have been there too.
I've gotten free. I have a 35 year happy marriage to a wonderful woman. I have men to go to for accountability and support.
You can get free, too. There's power in being connected with someone who understands.
And understanding yourself better.
Live Free. Love Strong.
Get a Free 15 Minute Consultation:
Want the customized attention and privacy of personal recovery coaching?
Individual mentoring and accountability is the most powerful way to take your recovery journey to the next level.
Want to compare notes with other guys? Get challenged and encouraged to strive for more? Seeking more authentic connections to other men?
Group coaching and accountability is a strong boost to regaining control and freedom.
All in one
I'm trained in Marriage and Family Counseling, and also in porn and masturbation addiction and infidelity.
So I can help you with your habit and in repairing your relationship with your woman.
You do need a specialist in porn and sex addiction. Many psychotherapists make the mistake of focusing on contributing psychological issues instead of helping you control the habit itself.
I also am a licensed Mental Health Counselor, so I can help you with any depression, anxiety or other issues that might be making things worse (for those living in New York).
I also keep my roster of clients small so I can give you the personal attention you deserve. And it makes a difference.
My clients love that I am action-oriented, with down to earth, practical solutions that get results fast.
"How do I quit my porn/sex habit?" is the question I focus on.
My suggestions make immediate sense. They will probably strike you as fresh, different, and doable.
It's valuable to consider why you do what you do, but the key is knowing how to disrupt and replace your unwanted sexual behavior.
I have many tools to help you and we will find the ones that work with your strengths and allow for your limitations.
I'm effective so you will quickly gain hope you can get free. And I'm accessible between sessions if you need a little extra support.
My services can all be easily accessed online if you want, to fit into your busy life.
Video meetings, 24/7 scheduling, messaging and payment can all be done through your own online entryway.
Meeting by video call is a lot more convenient, more confidential, and inexpensive compared to in-person sessions.
And you won't run into your co-worker in the waiting room.
Securely encrypted to protect your privacy.
We can connect at home, work or even a parked car.
If you live in the Seattle area, we can meet in person, too, in my comfortable office.
I favor research-proven methods, so I can go strictly scientific with you. If you're not religious, this is a comfortable place for you.
But I value my own faith. If spirituality is a resource for you too, I will capitalize on that asset.
Raised in a conservative home and feeling a lot of guilt? I am particularly effective with that.
Christian? Latter Day Saints? Jewish? Catholic? Muslim? Buddhist? Believer in a Higher Power? I have a working knowledge of all these faiths and I will honor what is important to you.
In -Person Meetings in Lynnwood:
16824 44th Avenue West, Suite 130
Lynnwood, WA 98037
Do you take insurance?
No. But the good news is that my services are already discounted compared to others (since I save on clerical services). My group coaching fee is lower than an insurance co-pay for most counseling.
More good news. No insurance means I can keep your records completely confidential. And you don't have to get a mental health diagnosis that remains on your permanent health record.
For New York office sessions, I can prepare the invoice for you to submit to your insurance company, as an out of network provider.
Do you have Early or Late hours?
Best hours are the late morning and afternoon, but I have some early morning slots available. I have group coaching on selected evenings. Contact me to see what is open.
Is my privacy protected if we meet online?
Yes. The online platform we use is encrypted to federal HIPAA confidentiality standards.
How long does coaching usually last?
On average, most men see great progress within a few months, and opt for about 6 months of individual sessions. They then usually continue with group sessions or reduce the frequency of one-on-ones.
Do You Work with couples?
Though couples counseling is a specialty of mine, I will coach you individually to help you undo the damage to your relationship and rebuild trust and connection.
I can also meet with your wife once to understand her concerns and explain the recovery process.
With physical or digital infidelity, I recommend a separate couples counselor who specializes in this.
And I also advise your partner to get her own coaching and support, to help her cope with how your actions are affecting her.